Saturday, August 21, 2010

Black Asian Dating – Why the girls want dating so bad

Today, I won’t be focusing that much on Black Asian Dating but more dating in general. Many guys are afraid that the girl of their dreams doesn’t like them or that they aren’t interested in relationships etc. but the truth is girls are the ones that dream of marrying, not guys. It takes an average of 2 years 11 months in the UK before dating becomes marriage but research has shown that those same females would have agreed an average of 7 months earlier. Now, what does this show?

Many people think that guys should be the ones that initiate a relationship. They couldn’t be more wrong. In fact, the women are the one that initiate the relationship most of the time. You may say that this is not true and even in your case, the male was the one who started it. However, research was done and it seems that girls use their body language to hint to males their interest, thus encouraging the male to open his mouth. Several body linguists agree.

Despite this, there has been a drop in couples dating due to a lack of time on both sides. Many females still do want to have a relationship but career-minded individuals prevent this. After all, many people see their career and the relationships as a zero-sum game. If you want to excel in your career, then you need to give up relationships. This same lack of time to date has led to the rise in computer dating systems and speed dating, both engineered to help you save time, either by matching you with the “right guy” from the outset or exposing you to a large number of prospects in a small time frame. Thus, many people have chosen to enroll themselves in such programs and the results are promising. With an aging population in many developed countries, I truly hope for the effectiveness of these programs.

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